Monday, August 22, 2011

Leave to Cleave

The title of this post brings several thoughts to mind, I'm sure. But most people are thinking in the same direction as this post too.

MARRIAGE!!!

It is always said that marriage is not easy. Well for some, it's an awesome experience. And others would rather not venture.




I attended a wedding a few days ago and as I listened to the homily, watched the expressions on the faces of the couple, felt the emotions and the aura of the people around, I myself was caught in a whole new world of thoughts.
I quizzed myself continuously and decided I'd blog about this.

One key point the priest raised was "for the family members to allow the couple to CREATE their own family"
I think this point is so vital today, but some preachers find it hard to just tell the families of the two to be wedded. LEAVE 'EM THE HELL ALONE!!!!

I also thought of the fact that we can be happy with anyone in this world as long as we CHOOSE to love them. There is no such thing as THE ONE FOR ME.
Anyone could fill those shoes. It's just a matter of choice.
Your parents cannot choose for you. Your friends cannot choose for you. Neither can anyone else aside your very self.

This post is especially directed to all single people out there to make that choice worth it! Do not let anyone make that so vital decision for you.
I have learned my lesson over the years and have decided to make myself happy. Choose a suitable Mantra for your life and your own will come to you with very little effort and no questions asked.

*sAmLi*

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